Not trying to call you out but where did you hear this? I'm pretty sure MDS can activate on a 2014 even if the ECO button is not lit up. Pushing the ECO button makes MDS come on more than normal (along with transmission shifting early).
Copy & paste from wk2jeeps.com:
" Standard Fuel Saver Technology and a new-for-2012 active valve exhaust system allows four-cylinder operation to engage over a wider rpm range, to deliver both improved fuel efficiency - an estimated 13-percent increase on the highway - and an extended range of approximately 450 miles on one tank of gas.
Of course, even SRT owners sometimes appreciate driving more fuel efficiently. For those times, the 2014 Grand Cherokee SRT features an innovative Eco Mode that optimizes the transmission's shift schedule and
expands the range of Fuel Saver Technology, which - when conditions are right - deactivates four cylinders to conserve fuel. Eco Mode is available in Selec-Track auto mode. Throttle mapping, transmission shift schedules and Fuel Saving Technology work in combination to achieve maximum fuel efficiency."
Jeep Grand Cherokee WK2 - 2011 Grand Cherokee engines
So if you are driving down the highway in AUTO non ECO Mode it will still enter MDS just on a more limited basis.